Did you know that some of the most common frustrations employees have with their coworkers and managers usually stem from the fact that their coworker or manager is actually insecure?
I've worked a lot of jobs at the bottom most of my life.
I've been offered more work here and there with management-ish roles. I've never taken them because I know that for myself at that time I wouldn't be a good manager for people under me, insecurities being one of them. Additionally the pay is too low for the extra work.
I've left 2 jobs within the last 2 years because of insecure management. I don't have a problem with people being insecure.
I have a problem with when people use those insecurities to lash out and accuse me of not doing my job or being dishonest (to cover themselves).
I'm trading 8 hours of my life a day 5 days a week. I'll been damned if I have to have my time be insulted and wasted like that anymore.