also, to test the software you don't need to launch the rocket, so I'm not sure why you even mention that..
At some point, your in silico model needs real world data to validate it.
A few
- How long fuel takes to load
- How much is lost due to venting, how fast we need to recycle that to keep the ship on the pad ready to launch
- Actual engine startup times when many starting at once
- Actual thrust as the vechicle leaves the pad
- Actual response to control authority (how fast the ship changes course) for vectoring, gas thrusters, flaps
- Actual vibration measurements, how much measured acceleration is noise