Smoothly rendering 3k rectangles isn't a common use case for UI libraries, so I'm not surprised they perform poorly. They generally aren't optimized for that. The normal answer for weird, high performance rendering like that is to just use opengl or something and program against the GPU directly. 3d rendering contexts can render millions of rectangles on modern hardware without breaking a sweat.
This advice is the same on desktop, mobile or the web. I'm not surprised rust UI frameworks have the same limitation. Most UIs don't need thousands of rectangles. But they do need lots of custom widgets, and implementing all of those well is a higher priority job for anyone building a custom UI library.