Same, the thoughts seems at least inspired by those events. The same insight could be labeled "How to bribe someone by making it seem like friendship."
I suppose the idea is ‘if you don’t feel awkward, then there can’t be any sense of obligation, so no quid pro the quo’.
But of course that’s not true.
Although I suppose the author only said this makes it look like it’s not a bribe. Presumably it might still actually be one.