Are there other cons I'm not aware of?
Seems like small potatoes compared to having clean drinking water.
Are you saying that the amount of energy it takes to deliver a given volume of water, varies based on the resistance at the outlet?
Most toothpastes make my teeth sensitive. Interestingly, one of the few that doesn't is fluoride-free. There's been no negative difference in the health of my teeth over the last several years of using that. My experience - fluoride overhyped, especially if you have an electric toothbrush.
It’s also a heavy metal, so if you don’t have problems with tooth decay I’d say you have nothing to worry about :)
Water utilities will all be moving to activated carbon filtration as emerging contaminants are better understood and regulations catch up.