He says he’d like that, but that it wouldn’t be fair

they should not. the fact that you did not understand this is what I was saying, suggests a lack of practice in social interaction. now this is not meant as a personal attack. think of it like this: you are teaching an arithmetic class - something for which fully functional members of society need to have the skill. you explain that 5+2*2=9. someone corrects you that it is in fact 14. what would you suggest this person do?

this also applies to basic language skills. i suggest that whatever advice you have for the previous hypothetical person, you apply to basic social interaction in your own life.

but maybe I'm wrong, and you did not read the comment to which I was replying. in that case, I suggest that when you read a comment, you should see the comment it's rebutting, prior to posting yours. this also, is a basic social skill.

I'll start you off: I do not own a house at all as I travel internationally and move around too much to stay in one place over a few years. I would also never purchase one in a risk zone, since there are thousands of others available w/o the risk, and they don't cost more.