This is exactly the attitude that needs to be addressed. It's hostile to argue with users who are doing something completely legal and tell them they shouldn't do that, they should do it another way, that that behavior needs to be discouraged, etc.
We went through this all the time with V8, trying to tell JS developers they just shouldn't do that because V8 had couldn't run that code fast. Or worse, that it had a particular pathology that made certain code absurdly slow. It just doesn't fly. It's V8's job to not go off the rails for user inputs; it should provide good default performance all the time, not get stuck in deopt loops, use absurd amounts of memory, etc. Yeah, and that's hard work.