You might be a skilled dev, but you still have to make something that is either better than what exist or different.
You might be a skilled dev, but you still have to make something that is either better than what exist or different.
I appreciate the comments though.
Signal does exactly this and I've used it to build a small private community of people who listen to my podcast. It's wonderful.
We are a small group with a discord "server" - and that works for us because most of us doesn't use discord for anything else - and i can comfortably have only notifications for dm/mentions and otherwise read it async at my leisure.
Granted discord has a gazillion knobs to tune notifications - but i could never make it work reasonably for diverse use cases like "wake me up in the night if family tries to reach me" and "never nag me about game updates - that I'll strictly check manually".
Is it not the case that when you're hanging out with some people, someone asks "hey man what's your facebook/number/discord" and then you get added to the group chat on whatever platform?
I can say from experience that wordpress+buddypress handles multiple private / public / partial each / optional for each group and profile.. all these things right out of the box, free, and WP is installable via softalicious on basic shared hosting environments.. as well as one click installs at places like DO I believe..
I like your calling to build more private group options, it's something I have hobbied with for more than a decade.
I think ultimately the roads for this end on paid instances that have an easy method for not just deploying - but migrating to other servers and moving domains and such as well - there becomes this push pull from edge cases of speech that will make the need to split and move the groups.
editing to add deeper dive into similar things in another thread popping today: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=36141083