Interesting about upmodding something you don't agree with. I find that upmodding a post gives me the psychological fix I need to feel like I contributed to a conversation. Without that fix, I still feel compelled to get my own voice in, even if my comment will be redundant. So I find upmodding someone else's post that I agree with prevents me from adding noise to an existing conversation.
I naively assume (hope?) that all discussion will be intelligent, so I don't see any need to reward it. Consequently, I rarely give or take points away from a post.
edit: I do rarely updmod posts I disagree with if I feel they are valid, and have been unfarily downmodded. I do this out of a desire for fairness.