Assuming 4k resolution per eye and 120 degree FoV would give 3840*2/120 = 64 ppd.
Using the link that you gave a 4k screen at 60cm is 73 ppd, so it is reasonably close.
Apple haven't said what the FoV is yet, so I'm guessing 120 based on the pi-max and an early impressions video from mkbd. The horizontal range isn't clear either: 23 megapixels would be about three 4k screens so it depends on the overlap region between the eyes.
It's not that far off 4k, and when sitting that close to a 28" 4k screen I find the pixels barely noticeable, i.e. I can see them if they are aliased but would not notice them when the colour gradient is smooth.