Thats why I instantly put these links into a service like
https://unshorten.me/ and then send/open them.
I use urlchecker [0] for this on my phone and have it set as my" browser" that way, every link i click on, I see a popup with the link and with one or two button presses I can remove the tracking parameters and/or unshorten it and then open it. Works like a charm. May be to much friction for some, but I like it.
[0] https://www.f-droid.org/de/packages/com.trianguloy.urlchecke...