Emotional intelligence and emotional control are different. They're separate concepts, though I'd bet they correlate a bit.
It's possible to be emotional and out of touch.
It's possible to be stoic and receptive.
It's possible to be emotional and out of touch.
It's possible to be stoic and receptive.
She also has no emotional control and is likely to bite you, or bawl on the floor crying when she doesn't get her way.