Dude, it's OK that you 're an extrovert, take it easy.
There's a certain ring to being an introvert lately I think? Maybe it's the new chic? A revival of teenage angst? In any case call a spade a spade.
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She.
Being a connector is about adding value selflessly. Thinking of others first, and yourself second.
I would argue that at the root of all true connectors is a deep sense of altruism.
I think something that is too often missed is that for some if not all the motivation is not simply a "selfless" altruism. True, helping others brings a deep satisfaction. But it also is an individual step in creating the kind of world we want to inhabit. One of cooperation, to mutual benefit and enjoyment.
I think some people get hung up on the term "selfless". For me, it's not selfless -- it's the essence of self. A self that seeks to be connected with and of use to other people. (And perhaps hopes a bit, but doesn't specifically expect on a case by case basis, for the same in return.)
P,S. Looked at the link, but it's Flash. So, not viewing it, for now.
I often tell people the following:
The world only works if you think of others first, and yourself second.
If everyone thought of your needs, they'd be met by now. If you only think about your needs, you have long road ahead of you.
EDIT: adding missing "not".