I was eager to use UML when it came out but I agree with the article, the only thing I kept was sequence diagrams. Most of the rest of it was just a complicated way to represent stuff that is best represented in code or plain documentation.
I’m also not afraid to use stuff that’s out of fashion. I use simplified ER diagrams, and even flow charts on occasion.
But the tool I use most often in design is SQL DDL…
I have also used Mermaid (using a modified Docsy theme in Hugo) and it is also great. Using Typora to edit Mermaid is also excellent.