`3w` is a command all its own. There’s an implicit move command baked in. Moving gets pretty clunky if you don’t have first order movement (adding a specifier or something to clear selection). You can mimic this by mapping a single button to <C-v> and disabling all movement commands in normal mode. It’s rough, but may be learnable.

I think something that might work better is adding a “commit” signal to operations. So you type `d3w` and the editor highlights the next three words with a strike through or red or whatnot. Then you can hit enter to commit the delete or escape to cancel it (cursor resets to start position, highlight goes away).