Also, if you're gonna try it do it either with a proper three-button mouse or with a large-ish and easy to press scroll wheel button. Otherwise it's really frustrating.
After longer usage you do that without any thinking
Moving to a mouse primes my brain to start thinking spatially about things. Which is not something I'm typically doing when looking at textual/symbolic things. I can see some value in doing it, of course.
Plan 9 in general seems very much like a system "by the designers, for its designers" with not all that much attention to user-friendliness. To some degree that's also the case for Unix, but with Unix other people took the thing they made at Bell Labs and made it somewhat user-friendly (and even then, its received plenty of criticism for it). In Plan9 that step never really happened.
I think the main thing people get confused by besides the chording is the teleporting of the cursor, but then you realize it's actually really useful once you get used to it (at least I did).
I don't know exactly; this is one of those things where I'd have to implement some things and play around to see what works. Something like some text popping up maybe? I don't know. More advanced users can always just disable these sort of things (I also set up my Vim to not show "-- INSERT --" because at this point it's never helpful for me and it looks a bit nicer this way, but obviously for loads of people it's a very helpful thing).
It definitely is that. That's a really great thing when the designers needs and assumptions match your own, but if they don't, you end up wondering what these bozos were thinking.
For what it's worth, Rob Pike was a big proponent of the mouse-driven design, and he has some very thoughtful essays/articles/emails about why he feels that way. I can't say I agree with him 100%, but it's clear that the decisions weren't arbitrary.