The safest plane on the list is the list is the Embraer E170. It has 0.03 deaths per million flights or one death every 33 million flights. So it’s actually more dangerous. And most people will be flying on Boeing 737s or Airbus A320s which are about 3-20x more dangerous per flight.
In any case, my takeaway is that people drive a lot so the denominator is pretty big. And if we remove driving drunk to the grocery store/driving there on NYE then driving is even safer.
So you're right, an individual plane ride is not "dramatically safer" than the average car trip (if anything it's slightly riskier), but people take far more car trips, so the risk adds up. Many years, NTSB reports ZERO deaths from commercial air travel [3], while vehicle crashes are a leading cause of death—not quite top 10, but close.
[0]: https://www.nhtsa.gov/press-releases/early-estimate-2021-tra...
[1]: https://www.energy.gov/eere/vehicles/articles/fotw-1041-augu...
[2]: https://www.census.gov/quickfacts/fact/table/US/HSD410221
[3]: https://www.ntsb.gov/news/press-releases/Pages/NR20211117.as...
And not to make this about the argument in the thread, but there’s not a lot you can do on an individual level to prevent airplane fatalities. (The flip side of course is you can be blackout drunk on a flight and still be perfectly safe.)