My claim is that buyers (parents+children) of college degrees are maybe not behaving rationally with respect to cost.
High-cost schools position themselves as offering a "better" outcome or opportunity to students. I'm really conflicted about this viewpoint. I have two children in high school with one a rising senior. So my family is discussing colleges and college costs somewhat regularly. We have visited a small number of state schools and a small number of smaller private universities and colleges. The smaller schools do a VERY good job of selling extra opportunities easily available to students. My experience is that opportunities can be found by a motivated college student at any institution but the small private schools seem to make it almost hard for a student to NOT be involved in meaningful outside-of-the-classroom options.