This type of interaction is not helpful. It's an argumentative strawman argument. Who said training a model is the same thing as copying a book? Of course it isn't. But who said it had to be?
Here's an idea... read the first five books in the series "A Song of Ice and Fire". Then sit down and write your own version of Book 6 to continue the story and sell it without a license. Guess what's going to happen? You will be sued into bankruptcy.
What OpenAI is doing is lot more similar to that than literally copying things. And it's still wrong and illegal.
It has been distorted beyond recognition by a few companies, who have state everything on a broad and permanent copyright
I agree with you, what Disney and others have done with copyright extensions is immoral and should be illegal. But it's not illegal.
pretending that training a model on some thing equals copying it isn’t based in reality
No, it isn't based in reality. Which is why nobody made the claim. They're packaging up a derivative work and selling it. Don't have to look hard to see examples that this is just as infringing as outright copying.