For me nothing can dethrone Inconsolata[0], there's just something elegant about it that I haven't found in other fonts I've tried. Been using it for almost ten years now. Also I don't like ligatures...
Ligatures are optional, so you don’t have to let the existence of those glyphs stop you from using an otherwise-better(-for-you) typeface. Additionally, in VSCode at least, there are extensions that give you even more contextual control.
Don’t ask why. It just feels right lol.
What do most people use?