On the other hand, technology has brought us to the brink of a climate disaster and a screwed up society (just look at how much research there is for the damaging effects of social media).
I also recommend David Skrbina's "The Metaphysics of Technology" although my posts and thoughts are independent of that book.
Atom bombs have extreme explosions, but they also require extreme maintenance, extreme precision in manufacturing, and are extremely detectable.
For AI the level of extremeness has not been defined. Yea, it requires extreme manufacturing, but it's the same manufacturing that builds billions of chips per year that are distributed almost everywhere. A server farm running AI looks much the same as a server farm running other computing tasks.
Coming back to atom bombs, yes, atom bombs could destroy the world 10 minutes from now, and every 10 minutes from now until we destroy enough of them they can no longer do that. It simply has not happened yet and we've likely been very very lucky that it has not happened.
Lastly, AI, especially when we reach AGI, is intelligence which means it will likely have some hand in if the world is destroyed or not. This risk rapidly increases if AGI capabilities are far beyond human capabilities.
When humans intelligence grew beyond that of the other animals, we became the masters of those animals. We can choose to manipulate them, control them, or if they cannot be controlled, destroy them.
Now, I don't understand why saying "There is no particular reason why humanity is the highest form and capability of intelligence" would be an extreme claim in any way. At least to me, the opposite is true "Humans are the most capable form of intelligence possible" is a anthropocentric and extreme statement.