- Move to a better paying job easily. You make instantly more money.
- Move to a cheaper place when times get tough. This gives security because your life is flexible and can adapt to the ever changing life.
- Change the space if you get a wife, kids, a dog, a parking space, or if they leave you. Well, the parking might stay.
- Leave if a neighbor becomes invasive, if they build a supermarket under your windows, if water gets contaminated...
- Get closer to your job so that you save time, energy and transport money.
- In case of divorce, you don't have to share anything.
- The gap between rent money and mortgage payment money can be used for anything. Sometime you can invest it. Sometime you can buy a gift or holidays. Sometimes it saves your ass for tough days.
Selling a house is hard. It cost money, time, energy, and you still have your loan running after that if you didn't negotiated early repayment. Plus, good luck getting a new loan to buy the next place if you are still paying the first one.
A house is a lot lock in, for the money it provides.
To me, home equity is a game changer for this discussion. the ability to open a HELOC and have access to a massive amount of capital is a gateway to real wealth thru various investment vehicles - not the least of which is investing in further real estate.. which will accumulate more equity itself etc..
- Homeowners can modify their dwelling. Renovations, painting, etc.
- Banks lend millions of dollars to ordinary people through mortgages. Subsequent loans can also be taken out against existing properties. This enables enormous leverage, with commensurate risk. A good way to get rich (or lose it all).
- Homeowners can be confident in their cost of living staying static long term, whereas rent typically increases every year. Decades later this can mean an initially pricey mortgage payment looks cheap compared to renting.
- Renters have the risk of being forced to move at the whim the landlord. Usually there are some protections like minimum notice periods and laws against arbitrary evictions, but there's always some chance whereas homeowners can stay put for generations provided they pay their continue to pay their mortgage and property taxes.
Unless I’m wrong and SF is actually cheaper to rent always.
Even considering all this, it’s often only a small difference. And renting gives you a different and sometimes advantageous quality of life.
If you include historic price appreciation over certain periods, you can end up ahead owning, but nothing guarantees that same price appreciation going forward.
For non-rent control places new landlords subsidize the cost. It's happening a lot in Toronto right now. Tons of new condos that investors bought where the rent doesn't cover the monthly carrying costs. They are betting that price appreciation will make them whole (and more). That's a risky bet.
For rent controlled apartments, you basically pay based on what the tenant's rent is. So if you have someone paying 50% of market rate, that dramatically bring the value of the house down. I was renting in a 3 unit building that would be worth $6M empty, but with 3 tenants paying below-market rates, it was sold for about $2M.
A house that costs $8,000 per month in rent might cost $2M to buy.
At $2M that's $9,500 in mortgage payment at 6% for 30 years, about $2,800 in property taxes, another $300 in insurance, and maybe assume $500 per month maintenance (over the long haul).
That's ~$13,000 per month when rent is $8,000.
You can knock the $1,500 per month off the mortgage payment that is paying off principle, but you'd also need to account for the opportunity cost of a $400,000 down payment at some modest return of say 4% which is ~$1,300, so it's about breakeven.
The you need to account for transactions costs - all the closing fees and the 5-6% realtor fee when you sell.
All in, if you rent in SF, but invest the savings from owning, you're not really far behind someone who buys, but of course it all depends on price appreciation and over what time period.
That's not to say you can't get lucky and buy right before some massive price appreciation then sell and lock in the gains. But unless you have a crystal ball, you can't time that sort of stuff.
I hadn't adjusted my mental models for the new interest rates, I was still thinking 2%-3%.