Perhaps I was too snarky, but I also wanted to help change a perspective that it’s not just important what I experience but to check that against others.

I struggle with thinking “I don’t see it, so it must be so” and wish others would point this out more for me.

Also, I kind of like snarky as it is closer to authenticity, I think, than always saying “good job, did you think of it this way…”