No, it's about being able to prove that your device is secure. Attestation doesn't stop you from writing software for your device.
>if she said keeping "her" stuff working was more important than my life
Arguing that you would be dead if your viewpoint isn't correct is a bad argument.
>what can be lost not just to industry, but to science itself when a church wants to name itself the arbiter of who can work?
It would be a better analogy to say that "employers can run background checks on people who want to work for them." Because it is up to each website to choose which attestors they trust and the websites have the choice of doing whatever they want with information or not requiring attestation at all.