Stop making stupid excuses. The fact that some people might get confused by some detail (like your iPhone alarm example) does not change the fact that some some other things are idiotic (like the refresh button). And your take on the refresh problem shows why this whole thing is a complete mess: I'm not suggesting "universal" auto-refresh. This is why the browsers is such a failure technologically: people want to try to solve all the problems in the platform instead of just providing simple, powerful primitives. As you recognise we need to restrict scope. The only software that actually works is simple and small. And I'm not just "admonishing others". I dropped out of academia and industry and moved into a cheaper neighbourhood to be independent so I can write the simplest software possible. To me that's better than empty talk about "UX" and other modernistic double-talk about how hard we've got it. And having an independent perspective, I can see that it's rationalisations all the way down. We will have botnets etc forever until people tackle the problems as a basic level by simple designs that eliminate the problems. But people can't even conceive of putting ethics before their own financial well-being because as an industry we have no ethics. Just pride in spreading our bullshit around as much as possible.

If software engineers built bridges we'd make it drive up and down the river, put in a few houses to be "efficient". And then when the thing breaks down we'd complain that it's "too hard". No shit it's too hard: because we promise more than we can deliver, hiding the risks and problems from the user. Firefox has as a feature in every version the ability for criminals to install rogue programs on your computer. And yet you won't see this in their marketing material. This is a solved problem. We know how to eliminate memory-safety problems, but Mozilla would rather take N years to do their rust rewrite (if it even happens) because it's in their self interest. If we had any ethics as an industry Firefox would come with a warning that it makes it possible to install rogue programs on your computer. But it won't.