It's pretty naive to assume that you and your family would be on the "enjoying the ends" side of the equation as opposed to the "sacrificed as means" side.
A lot of people, from Robespiere to USSR party officials found out the hard way.
Not to mention that the kind of types who opt "for the ends, the means be damned" seldom show much restraint.
Or the problem of who choses those ends, for whose benefit, and who did they ask?
>A police who shoots a knife wielding attacker in the leg is clearly a means that justify the ends for example. The only difference between that and Hitler is 1) the scale and 2) that Hitler was factually wrong about the universe.
No, the difference between that and Hitler is one of quality, not scale.
For starters, shooting the leg of 10 million people is not the same as executing 10 million people. Even as physical bodily damage is way less. I'd chose to be shot in the leg over being gassed any day of the week.
And it's even less "the same" if the ones who shot in the leg were knife wielding attackers and you did it to stop them, as opposed to them having done nothing.
As for being "factually wrong", Hitler could just as well be equally vicious while being factually correct. Saying "I know Jews are not pulling the strings, but I want to blame and exterminate them anyway because I want to use them as scapegoats" would be factually correct, yet the deeds would be no less evil.