No reason to hate sororities and frats because we nerds couldn't join or didn't want to join.
Umm... There's probably some good reasons.
https://www.vox.com/22384053/abolish-greek-life-fraternities...
When you have someone saying that everybody has a certain problem, the problem is usually them.
you may like it. Lots of people don't and it's their business because its about all of us in the end.
That said, Geraldo opening skull and bones vaults Doonesbury is a great cartoon sequence.
A better model might be "erasmus" -a European norm, which has led to strong bonds, without the hazing and drinking rituals.
I was always told "wait until you get to college and you'll find those people." Plus there's the common narrative of college friends you'll have for the rest of your life.