My husband just retired. I’m scared to death of running out of money
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At the end of the day, you’re going to die if you’re lucky. More likely, one of both partners will have a debilitating medical event that will drain their savings on mediocre medical services or theft/waste by caregivers.
Spend the money responsibly but don’t fret. If you want to give your kids money, just give them money.
My situation is simple. I have one spouse and one kid. I’ll have the equivalent of few million bucks between annuities and savings at 55-56 and will retire, with an income allocated to spend about 60% of the total by 70. If I make past there, I’ll have beat all of my male ancestors and will still have plenty of pension, social security and investment income to live my best old man life.
Thanks to Medicaid clawback - I mean Look-Back - rules if you die too soon after giving your kids money, Medicaid will take it from them.
https://finance.yahoo.com/news/avoid-medicaid-5-lookback-pen...
Addendum: they can also recover from your estate, up to the full amount that Medicaid has spent for your long-term care, and that's not time-limited.
Disclaimer: if you're in this situation, it is strongly recommended that you talk with a reputable attorney specializing in elder law before doing anything.