But that makes it sound like something between "sex" "sacks" and "sucks", which is less flattering.
The point being.. prescribing language is pointless. People will say what they will.
But I get your point. I say ‘kwebek’ and not ‘kebek’ and ‘MAdrid’ not maDRID.
(You're right though, even if some people are being silly about that one)
Oftentimes though locals are like “just call it Sweden, we know you will butcher Sverige” or “just call it Finland, we know you will mess up Suomi”
It actually often confuses people when you are speaking in English and use the appropriate pronunciation for that language. Like it would throw someone off if I was in Sweden speaking English and said the Swedish way of saying Gothenburg instead (which, depending on where you are from in Sweden, can sound something like “YOT eh boy” with a silent or very soft G at the end)
In your case, it's like pronouncing Rome as Rom-EH, because it sounds cool to you.
Or you can justify your ignorance and inability to literally shift the stress one syllable over with any story you like, if you prefer.
I'm pretty sure people in New York calling it Neuva York soon get corrected, and soon correct themselves. You'd have a hard time living in Britain by being so stubbornly reluctant at learning the correct pronunciation of places.
In any case I’m not in Madrid and the people saying ‘nweva joR’ may not be in New York either.
And despite Erdogan’s pronouncements I’ll keep on saying Turkey.
Postgres-QL rolls off the tongue better than PostgreSequel.