Well you were right in coming here, this is basically the only Stripe customer support desk.
You can email the mods to get an official answer, but it's almost sure they will just reply that.
https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html - these are guidelines on what is and is not appropriate on HN. they can help guide you toward what are appropriate posts and comments.
https://news.ycombinator.com/newsfaq.html - FAQs that answer a lot of the questions that you've been asking.
https://news.ycombinator.com/showhn.html - the (very specific) rules on what "Show HN" is, and why and why not you would post to the special "Show HN" section of HN.
I would recommend reading them thoroughly before continuing to respond, as it might help temper some of your comments and the responses to them.