I am surprised that anybody is surprised about this. LLMs don't even understand relations and even if they did: Why would they assume that relations are symmetric? It would be incorrect to do so for the general case anyways.
It's like "understand" has been repurposed to mean "understand in the way that I understand as a human" even though human cognition is:
a) still an area of deep study that people making most of these declarations are completely unfamiliar with (not unlike the over-anthropomorphizing crowd being unfamiliar with LLMs)
b) often hypothesised on the basis of probabilistic models that don't support somehow "gatekeeping" the concept of understanding: https://www.cell.com/trends/cognitive-sciences/fulltext/S136...
Sure, most of the time “is” is not commutative, but sometimes it is, so it should be higher probability than guessing.