https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Apache_Software_Foundation...
> Why the name "Apache"?
> A cute name which stuck. Apache is "A PAtCHy server". It was based on some existing code and a series of "patch files".
https://web.archive.org/web/19970106233141/http://www.apache...
All they did was reuse a name. What's the problem?
More than can fit in an HN comment, entire cultures were destroyed. This was through disease, war, imprisonment, and outright repression. "Apache" is an identity that some still hold on to after this genocide. And someone saw this history, thought what these people went through "romantically represented" his web server project, and took on the name.
If you don't see how this is any different from calling your company Apple so you show up ahead of Atari in the phone book, I don't know what to tell you.