Law student. These sort of situations have been considered by the people that write criminal laws.
If you recommend a crime to someone and then they do it then you're a party to that offence (http://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/acts/C-46/page-6.html#h-5 [Canadian Criminal Code, but I assume US is quite similar on this]).
There are a variety of ways to become a party to a crime, and then you're as guilty as the rest of 'em.