I follow your point about the OP maybe not understanding some context and well it's just a hard lesson learned.
I don't follow your fixation on sign-off. I am familiar with the guidelines. Like I said, sign-off is clerical. Yes it's obviously important, but it's still clerical. Nothing you've said changes that.
I agree there's obviously a middle ground here where both the maintainer was acting in the best interest of the community to get a security fix integrated and where the first-time contributor was perhaps miss-attributed in the commotion and feels slighted but also can learn a lesson. I'm not one of those out there calling for a witch hunt to cancel the maintainer (honestly I don't know where to those people are, but I'll take your word that you've encountered a few of them).
Still, your fixation on "well Ariel didn't sign off on the commit so all's fair" is pretty dismissive of the work Ariel did to get to the patch. The bug was acknowledged and outstanding. This obviously wasn't something massively problematic or the original bug would have been fixed when it was reported (I guess maybe it was misunderstood and it really was serious, but I don't get that vibe), so I don't think we're dealing with a case of urgency trumping all human decency.
At the end of the day, Ariel is a contributor. No not someone who has privileged commit access to the software, but a contributor to the project nonetheless, whether a maintainer copy-pasted the work or not. And hopefully someone who will continue to contribute in the future. I hope Ariel can come to see it that way whether the maintainer tries to make things right, or even just apologize for the confusion, or not.
I don't read Ariel sharing his experience as an attack. I read it in his words as:
> Well, I certainly didn’t feel inspired to get involved with the kernel community again. On the contrary, I felt belittled and angry that my work wasn’t properly recognized.
> My first contribution to the kernel was a really frustrating and discouraging experience, dealing with people who do not think it’s important to get proper recognition for your work.
I, at least, hold the "lkml bureaucracy" to higher standards.