I feel like this is only possible because Cloudflare is already so huge. If this becomes widely adopted, anyone who wants to offer "private" access to their site will have to move through Cloudflare. This can't be good.
Individual servers hosting one single website won't benefit much though. Unless you do encrypted split-DNS, I guess.
So if you have a few folk who each want to self-host, you can group together to provide ECH across all your sites without leaking to each other more than you leak to any passive attacker today.
(Or if the user isn't using some form of DNS privacy like DNS-over-HTTPS/TLS, but then their domain connections are exposed regardless of whether their CDN/host implements ECH.)