The Bay Area has some of the most generous taxpayers in the country. The issue isn’t the amount of resources.
Some lower-tax (lower than California) destinations are incredible places to live as well - it’s not a choice between anarcho-capitalism and California.
So there’s at least a tiny bit of generosity there.
Neither is "donating" your income to your own charitable organization, which is a well-established tax avoidance scheme rather than actual humanitarianism.