Superhuman strength AI-Go has given us more data on this subject (suggesting 6.5 Komi is balanced). Since both players are balanced as far as we can tell (first turn starts off with a 6.5 point disadvantage, and the half-point difference forces a winner. No draws), it doesn't really matter who goes first.
If in the future, a super-super AI performs deeper analysis and determines say... 7.5 Komi is the best, I'm sure that Go players all around would update the game rules as appropriate to the new understanding of what a balanced game is. (After all, 6.5 Komi itself is an experiment, albeit the most successful experiment, for balancing the game).
Though maybe I'm just being optimistic with regards to the debate. IIRC, engines like LeelaZero / Katago has the following result: 5.5 favors 1st player, and 7.5 favors 2nd player. And 6.5 is just right.
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Komi has trended upwards because it originally was zero, which was obviously wrong.
Note: Chinese rules changes Komi calculations. 6.5 Komi Japanese is IIRC equivalent to 7.5 Komi Chinese.