exLlama is blazing fast. Even if they just benched exllamav1, exllamav2 is only a bit faster, at least on my single 3090 in a similar environment.
vLLM is focused more on batching performance, but even then MLC/TVM looks like its putting up a fight without batching.
I am a bit fatigued with llama backends myself, and it looks like this won't help me run 70B in a single 3090, but I need to dig into mlc again.