Here in Switzerland 80% of homes are supposed to have smart meters by 2027 but it looks like it will take longer, we are at 20%[1]. Once you have one the energy company has to give you access to (by law[2]) it (rs232, Ethernet what every the device offers) so you can read the data from it.
[1] https://www.srf.ch/sendungen/kassensturz-espresso/kassenstur...
I'm really curious how you go from "smart meter" to "save a lot of power". Just because I have a smeter, I won't save money. My regular meter already shows power consumption (not that convenient, that's true) and my smart meter won't tell me what actually uses my power. So, regarding saving power, it's the same as with a regular meter?
How do you save energy by having a smart meter?
This acts as a great reminder to switch off anything that's using a lot of power.
Why would you block ads when you can get "relevant" information on what to buy and consume?
The same asymmetric relationship exists here: the power company gets a lot more benefits from this system than you do, in fact it may even be at your detriment and no one cares.
It's a problem for the utilities, and a cost that will be borne by all their rate payers, but I don't see any individualized cost or benefit here that is dependent on having or not having one of these meters.