I know things are more complicated
You, however, need a mirror. Everything you just said is a wonderful display of willful ignorance. Your head in the sand does not protect you from the world
Big Tech, in 2023, is effectively a governmental body. I mean all 7 (or whatever) of the largest companies. They operate in a wildly anti-competitive and anti-free-market way, rivaling even the Railroad tycoons of a bygone era.
I'm not anti-corporation, but there needs to be some effort put into correcting this. It's not going to fix itself.
Our country would be a lot better off with a lot of small businesses rather than a few gigantic businesses.