Yeah man, love this app, who wouldn't...
Yeah man, love this app, who wouldn't...
I actually prefer people list their preferences up front, that way that's no disappointment later.
For example, I can think a straight guy is cute, but I'm not personally attracted to straight guys, I find it unattractive, because I know they're not interested (in addition to hetero culture, chest beating etc that is just gross).
Easier for someone to say "not into short guys" up front cause then I just skip over them rather than interact and have awkwardness later on.
to be clear, there are multiple examples here of varying politeness.
There might very well be a problem in the gay community in this regard, but if so it runs way deeper, this would happen with or without grindr.