Yeah this is the probably the worst default for a fs that supports raid.
With btrfs, you can easily add a new drive so that new writes can be accepted and mirrored immediately, then start rebuilding the old data with lost redundancy (possibly after running another incremental backup, which will be less stressful to the drive than the full rebuild). But the "add a new drive" step happens outside the kernel, in userspace and possibly in meatspace, so it can't be a default action for the kernel to take.
Also, if you're happy running off a single disk in a faulted mirror, then I'd question why you've got the mirror setup at all.