"I understand what you are trying to say and I think you are wrong" at a conf to delighted razzes and jeers from the room. Bjarne had seemingly just discovered that link lists thrash cache and was presenting about swapping in a vector instead. Note it's got nothing to do with whether this guy is onto something or not. It is possible to disagree without being an asshole. Bjarne missed the opportunity. C++ culture follows.
https://youtu.be/SfkMiGFVhZo?si=pd36kbm9FFoKFuKm&t=4111
IMHO it is unsurprising there's a lot of groupthink involved in such a culture and it has really damaged the language and certainly makes it unpleasant in the way you describe.