Top 100 Blogs for Developers
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However the content changes daily and is often a mere reflection of what is popular that day on Digg/Reddit/Techmeme etc.
Even so, the 'various' blogs are in a minority, so even if every one had a female author, it'd be heavily biased towards men. It's no wonder we have so many women in the industry when those that are don't talk about it.
Sometimes I feel like I can't program and I can't write. Then I visit Coding Horror, and I don't feel so bad anymore. At least I don't write book reviews for books that I clearly haven't read.