If you want to bring your own UI, TanStack Table (formerly React Table) [0], if you want something that's batteries included, MUI [1][2]. There are of course other options with either close or full feature parity, but these are the two I see most often with least pain across different companies. While we're on the topic of recommendations, avoid any- and everything by Telerik.
[0] https://tanstack.com/table/