Loneliness despite company, especially in urban environments, has been one of the most popular topics in art & culture for like a hundred years for a reason.
"What the longest running study on happiness reveals"
I have extreme loneliness. Strong indications of social anxiety. Alexithymia challenges on top of that.
I have kind of run out of ideas how to fix this. Waldinger's point to not give up seems poignant but unclear what to do differently.
My post was indeed a soundbite, but if I must post seriously, I think his observation is only valid for such "normal" people having something to return to.
I mean what's the difference between the real thing and a simulation of the real? Probs the simulation is better, especially if it pays the bills! Right?