U.S. Suicides Reached a Record High Last Year
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I don’t have the self stigma I used to have. I don’t see myself having a disease as much as I see myself having an environmental sensitivity. Sort of like a peanut allergy.
Can antidepressants be used for lows and you get to keep the mania, or is that dangerous, and you have to stay on stabilizers?
I hear stories about electroconvulsive therapy being used when drugs don't work, but it seems like it can result in anything from a dramatic worsening of symptoms, to nothing, to miraculous improvement and they don't know why. Has it ever been offered?
I’ve tried all the drugs, and none of them work to make me feel like most of you probably feel. The only thing that works consistently is Klonopin as needed. I think my major issue is a one of glutamate GABA imbalance. I can for sure trigger a mania with his little as 10 mg of Prozac.
i can cure myself but I lack the ability to do so right now because of my living situation. over the last four years I’ve had three periods of total remission lasting over three months.
Email me here adiaryofdespair@protonmail.com
I mean having something newer that a 2001 Dodge grand Caravan to live in would be great, but…
I’m in I have no problem living my van right now but the stress of breakdown is a big trigger for me. I mean if I lose this, I’m totally homeless, and that’s a whole different game.
Edit: cybernetic corollary: neurons that we wire together, will fire together.
k12 education is incredibly poor for our ROI. We get some algebra skills and reading skills. Hearing people say the words 'trust the science' means they didn't 'get' the scientific method.
I cannot imagine why we don't have a 'health' class that teaches about the human body scientifically works. Teach about how addictions are formed, teach about how hormones/various neurochemicals impact our brains, when we experience them, etc... I currently am learning about these and there are all sorts of LPTs you get when you realize how the brain actually works.
Seeing you include DARE in that list means you are talking about something completely different than neurobiology.
You aren't teaching kids PhD level neurobiology. You're teaching them the applied concepts.
Even in high school when you're learning about dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin, etc, it's not at a PhD level, but focuses on how those changes impact different systems, especially any observable behavioral changes.
So please don't tell me what I did or didn't learn. Please realize that neurobiology is not only available as PhD level content, but rather, like all other subjects, has content for lower education levels as well.
I feel the opposite - kids are being treated like machines, with their performance judged at every step. Treating a kid's brain like a "performance muscle" is gross to me. There's a vast emotional world being papered over to squeeze out performance from children.
Student athletes learn more about their bodies and performance than students do about their brains.
"why do you think the lessons aren’t crossing over into academics?"
I don't think this. My anatomy and physiology class covered the basics about different processes. Things like sleep, stress, and attention were things that were covered in some assemblies or ad-hoc (at least from an applied standpoint and not necessarily deep technical standpoint).
I agree its really important to learn how one's physical body and habits shape their felt experience and to truly realize you have a lever to change it.
Now they allow high schoolers to take college classes during high school and get credit for both to fill the gaps in some areas.
This is so crazy to me. When I think of suicide I never picture a retiree taking his own life. There‘s a lot of talk about the mental health epidemic among teenagers. I wonder what causes this high a suicide rate among men 75+. Loneliness?
Second, because the cause is likely systemic, don't blame or try to "fix" individuals.
Anyone over 65 would be on Medicare. It’s not exactly free, but it’s also not private.
https://www.medicareinteractive.org/get-answers/medicare-pre...
Medicare premiums increased 5.9% for 2024 ($9.80 increase from $164.90), while the 2024 COLA for Social Security benefits is 3.2%. So the longer you live, the worse your financial picture gets.
I think the bigger factor is not the healthcare at that point but the lack of healthy living up to that point. There's not much that can be done for some conditions like dementia. There are many conditions though where people ignored their weight, sugar, etc for decades and there's not a magic cure, or the damage is already done.
A few that came to mind: -chronic pain -immobility (walkers/wheelchairs etc) -mental decline (senility) -loneliness as you say (possibly addressed by mental decline but it's often cited as a major issue for the elderly) -exponential medical costs
There's probably a lot of other reasons as well I'm sure. What a drag it is getting old.
It doesn't surprise me in the slightest.
I personally enjoy life and have never had suicidal thoughts, but I also don't want to live forever if my health declines to the point where I'm in a miserable terminal condition.
Old men are currently expected to sit in nursing homes and watch TV until they die. Given how painful those years can be, there would be a lot of downside and no upside.
Even if families care about their elderly, the best most can hope for is affection. Whether they deserve it or not, there's not likely to be much reverence in our culture; nobody's really going to listen to them. While it's doubtful they were ever the defining authority in a family, they may have at least been consulted in the past. Now they are more likely to be viewed (rightly or wrongly) as a burden that nobody would even think to ask for advice or input.
All people need to be integrated into their society.
I spent one afternoon going through a couple handfuls of suicide cases and while I don’t remember many nitty gritty details, the thing that surprised me was seeing a lot of older men.
Their suicide notes were also primarily instructions on what their family should be doing with their assets/finance talk, that part has always stuck with me 2 decades later.
People do not know what it means to say “if I was suffering, I would just kill myself“ to someone who lives with the mental illness and his homeless. Because mid 50s and that’s me. So you’re literally giving me the OK to kill myself.
Not 75, but old enough to have my share of chronic pain that just randomly comes with aging. Based on my subjective experience to date and extrapolating forward a bit, it's not hard for me to imagine a 75 year old being in enough pain to where that would be a major factor.
Also, I'd guess that cognitive decline is a factor. Speaking for myself, while my body doesn't work as well as it used to in some ways, my mind (so far as I can tell) still does. And the idea of starting to lose my mental faculties fucking terrifies me. And while I currently have zero plans to commit suicide now, or ever, I can take a step back and look at things and say that if/when the day comes that I feel like I'm starting to fade mentally, that might push me to the place where I could consider something like that.
I have to say I sort of understand where she was coming from. She lived to over a hundred years old. Her husband and children had passed by the time she was 98, all of her friends were dead, she couldn't participate in public (church etc) life in a way she found fulfilling... It honestly seems like a terrible situation to be in.
75 is a viable die-able age. This is my end of life plan if i am disabled, diseased or just not having fun in life.
I don't get why only men are making this decision though.
That statement is incredible to me. Can you explain what not having fun would look like to you?
And lets not forget the final stage, the potential 1-3 months (like my grandma) of life. She had finally had enough of the pain and difficulty, but she had to just let the disease take her over rather than end her life right then. So she spent 6 weeks in agony with a nurse 24/7 solely to manage pain.
Yea.. i don't get the appeal, personally.
Men lack that "...." especially later in life when parents have passed away.
I see so many old people go far, far beyond what constitutes capable or even coherent. That just seems like a nightmare to me. All for the sake of.. what, some religious foundation that is dying out?
> In 2021, slightly more than half (52.4%) of those receiving MAID were men, and the small percentage difference between men and women has not changed significantly since 2020.
https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/daily-quotidien/230213/dq230...
So in the situation you are describing it may not be a difference in desire but in the effectiveness of the method used. Or that men over 75 commit suicide for other reasons than medical problems.
Oh come on, we all know why. Its socially acceptable to hate men and blame them for everything bad. It starts or feeds negative emotions.
I think it's how society treats them. I would think most other cultures have lower rates based on how men are viewed and treated in other societies.
At least in my view, men are expected to be strong, successful, etc. They are seen as providers (look at how courts treat them). So when you aren't working, aren't strong anymore, etc, some people aren't going to see their worth in other areas. In general men are expected to be self supporting (look at charities and welfare) and to support others (alimony, child support, main provider for family), so what do you expect when they've been groomed this way and can't take care of themselves and become a burden to others?
It's odd going around town and seeing every landmark changed, all the mediums (film, newspapers and more) you loved be relegated to niche outlets. All the people that knew your world and spoke your cultural language are gone.
Memories stacked on memories e.g. this street address used to be a shopping mall, that used to be where my high school sweetheart first kissed me.
Add medical difficulty on top of that, family troubles and financial woes.
Men used to run the world and they were finely tuned for it.
You'd have to write a biography or book to get all that backed up change out of you.
Millenials are going to feel this very acutely, I speculate.
https://www.usccb.org/resources/ethical-religious-directives... (Part 5 Issues in Care for the Seriously Ill and Dying)
(56) A person has a moral obligation to use ordinary or proportionate means of preserving his or her life. Proportionate means are those that in the judgment of the patient offer a reasonable hope of benefit and do not entail an excessive burden or impose excessive expense on the family or the community.
(61) Patients should be kept as free of pain as possible so that they may die comfortably and with dignity, and in the place where they wish to die. Since a person has the right to prepare for his or her death while fully conscious, he or she should not be deprived of consciousness without a compelling reason. Medicines capable of alleviating or suppressing pain may be given to a dying person, even if this therapy may indirectly shorten the person’s life so long as the intent is not to hasten death.
cat 'nameserver 192.168.1.1' > /etc/resolver/some.mydomain.com
Would then tell any requests for some.mydomain.com to resolve through 192.168.1.1 (locally). In this case specifically it'd be cat 'nameserver 8.8.8.8' > /etc/resolver/archive.today
cat 'nameserver 8.8.8.8' > /etc/resolver/archive.is
cat 'nameserver 8.8.8.8' > /etc/resolver/archive.md
cat 'nameserver 8.8.8.8' > /etc/resolver/archive.ph
etc for all their various mirrors. Check manpages I guess for any differences but something close to that. Though note that irritatingly not all applications will necessarily pay attention to the OS resolver (by default, or at all) in the first place. If not and you can't switch you'll have to dig into prefs/workarounds for those specific ones.----
As a meta-note to all this, this is the kind of manual change that is easy to set and then have just sit there for a decade and completely forget about, then have it potentially cause some head scratching if/when something changes on the far side. Always a good habit to keep an orderly record of such things, or have it as some sort of playbook for auto-setting up systems so you can comment it with the date and reason.
The psychologists or psychiatrists that are accepting new patients have a 3-6 month wait for first appointment.
6-14 years of college/post doc/degree to become a psychologist depending on type and state. 12-16 years to become a psychiatrist and prescribe medications.
How could I have been in remission when I did not even know I was in a low EMF area? It was only when I looked back on my life after I discovered this possibility that I could trace my symptoms in part by how much EMF I was exposed to.
For example, my worst episode I had in years was one they installed Wi-Fi in my work building in 1999. I was at network engineer. I did not know about this effect until four years ago.
I find myself affected by both low frequency and RF radiation.
I’m not saying that is the only trigger to my illness, just one of many environmental factors. The other is air pollution.
* I am an upper middle class white American millennial and could be a bit biased
1. When did you get your first course on neuroscience and how brains work best?
2. Did you ever learn in school a tool kit for keeping your brain performing at its best?
2. Not in school. In books on my own. Most toolkit info was mnemonics and memory palace type things but few about brain health, focus, activity level, sleep, meditation, and such available on podcasts today.
1. Grad school. I came in as a more tech/physics applicant and had to learn it all from a fire hose.
The canonical book is Kandell: https://www.amazon.com/Principles-Neural-Science-Fifth-Kande...
But, please, don;t read that unless you're a neuroscientist. It's too much for a 'layperson'
This one should be better for most casual people with an interest: https://www.amazon.com/Creating-Mind-How-Brain-Works/dp/0393...
Honestly? Just ask chatGPT questions that you have. It's more than good enough for casual interest.
2. Nope. Not even as a person researching and doing experiments. Most US based academia is firmly in the camp of 'beatings will continue until morale improves'. They ignore almost all of their own findings about the need for sleep and learning and spaced repetition when it comes to teaching. Culture is hard to overcome.
Nearly everything I've learned about optimal brain performance (if you can even consider that a thing, which I do not), I learned from reading papers (mostly reviews) and random internet garbage that somehow ended up being true.