>Or, put another way: you can undo effects of a lens, or the way photo was developed classically, because each pixel is still correlated with reality,
You cannot undo each and every effect. Polarizing filters (filters, as are lens coatings, are part of a classical lens in my opinion), gradual filters, etc effectively disturb this correlation.
As does classic development, if you work creatively in the lab (as I did as a hobby a long time ago in analog times) where you decide which photographic paper to use, how to dodge or burn, etc.
But yes, I agree that computational photography offers a different kind of reality distortion.