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Try marrying. Nothing stresses you into a man like trying to forge a life with someone else.

Try having kids, building a life with someone is easy mode until you throw multiple children into the mix. It's the final milestone of the human metamorphosis and it's a challenge.

Been there, done that. Bought one of the kids an axolotl after lots of pester-power and boatloads of "I promise I'll look after it, feed it and clean its tank every day".

So it's come to pass that now I look after it, and every time there's a new "Dad, can I have a XXX as a pet?" I can say "Well, you haven't looked after the axolotl". And since they can live for 25 years, there is some method to my madness ;)

Don't agree to care for their parrot, it ought to outlive you both.

Or a turtle / tortoise!

That's why RMS has a "I'd love to meet your parrot, but please don't buy me one" rider in his speaking contract.

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