Looks like this guy http://blog.greg-net.co.uk/post/21228054876/building-node-js... has already written a tutorial to cross compile nodejs for the Raspberry Pi
They're just tarballs, unpack them and move the files if needed.
http://archlinuxarm.org/arm/community/nodejs-0.6.15-1.1-arm....
http://archlinuxarm.org/arm/community/v8-3.9.9-1-arm.pkg.tar...
We also have full Raspberry Pi support as another of our developers has had a test board for quite a while, so if you're looking for something simple but powerful, it's a good choice :)